Historically, men typically hold the power in relationships but as society progresses, it is becoming more and more common, and popular, for women to lead in their relationships. The truth is, not every man wants to be in control while many women do.
First, let’s discuss what a female led relationship is. As the name suggests, a female led relationship or FLR is a relationship where a woman takes the lead and serves as the dominant partner, while a man serves as the submissive one. She will make all the important decisions and have ruling authority over the man. In short, she will run the household.
Of course with FLRs there are varying levels of control the woman might have. It may range from low control (which can increase over time) all the way to full control. The controllable aspects can include dynamics such as:
- What money you can spend / what you can spend money on
- What you can wear
- How you can spend your time
- Your household chores and responsibilities
- And of course, when you get to orgasm
A man’s willingness and desire to be in a FLR generally stems from their personality. Below are the typical signs that indicate that you’re ready to be in a female led relationship.
You’re a Natural Submissive
One of the the biggest signs that you’re ready for a female led relationship is if you’re naturally submissive to women. If you love pleasing women and doing as you’re told then it’s only right that you let a woman lead your life.
A FLR is all about doing as your told and letting the woman be in control so being submissive will make it work smoothly. If you’re not a submissive type of guy then you may quickly butt heads with your spouse.
You Like Being Told ‘No’
Perhaps you have a job with a powerful position with which you always get your way or make the important decisions. A lot of the time these type of men like to go home and release control and power to their spouse. Even more, many of these men love being told ‘no’ because they never hear it otherwise.
Whatever your reason for liking being told no, if it turns you on then you need to be in a female led relationship.
Your Love Life is Lethargic
Has your relationship hit a rut sexually or do you find yourself just not into having sex with your spouse? When you’re wife is in the mood do you feel too tired or not into it?
Chances are you’re either unhappy with your current relationship dynamic or jerking off way to much. This is a great reason to begin a FLR and get locked up in a chastity cage so your spouse can fully control you and your sex life. When you suddenly lose your ability to orgasm at will and surrender it to another, you will not only appreciate your orgasms more but also your chastity keyholder wife much more as well which will refresh and rejuvenate your relationship.
You Like Being Belittled or Humiliated
If you are aroused by having your wife mock and humiliate you then that’s a good sign you’re ready for a female led relationship. Once you give up control to your wife they can not only hold that power over you but easily belittle you for for having no say and not being able to do what you want without asking permission.
You Wear a Chastity Cage
If you wear a chastity cage or want to be in a chastity relationship with your spouse, that is the ultimate sign that your wife should be in charge. Let’s face it, if you’re willing to surrender control of your penis and orgasms, then you’re ready to give up control of your life.
How many of the above signs do you check off? Truthfully, if it’s even just one, you should strongly consider talking to your wife about starting a FLR. You won’t regret it.
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What if you’re a submissive by nature. Not into being belittled but you enjoy having your cock locked in a male chastity device and you don’t have a keyholder/
If you’re submissive and enjoy male chastity, then you’re ready for a FLR for sure. You can still have fun with chastity without a keyholder. Checkout some of our posts on solo chastity:
https://www.malechastitylife.com/chastity-lifestyle/how-to-solo-chastity/
https://www.malechastitylife.com/chastity-games/solo-chastity-games/
I love being feminine and know full well that the next step is for my wife to make me a true sissy cuckold!
I e recently been locked in chastity by my reluctant wife. At first she thought it was weird. Now after only 3 weeks I’m only permitted one orgasm per week and that is by masturbation in front of her.
Sounds like she’s starting to like it!
I am curious to know, do women really want a chastity sissy. Could a woman really love a husaband who is locked and possibly wearing femine clothes. The thought of cuckhold is not appealing in any fashion, the bonds in marriage are important to me. Intercourse is so intemante, between man and woman, is that something a wife is willing to give up and even desire it?
To be honest, my wife didn’t like it at first, but she saw that I did so she found a way to make it useful to her by making me dress up and clean the house. She keeps me locked up and uses me when she wants and otherwise ignores that it exists. She’s come to love it all now.