You and your partner are in a chastity relationship — that’s great! But let’s be honest, simply being locked up in a chastity cage for days on end alone can become a little boring after a while. Maybe your partner isn’t engaging with you and your cage enough or perhaps the ways in which they are engaging are growing stale.
If this is you then it may be time to consider expanding your chastity relationship with femdom! And you’re in luck because we’ve compile a fun and kinky list of ways to introduce and expand femdom into your chastity relationship.
1. Establish Your Female Led Relationship
If you are in a chastity relationship then chances are you are already in a female led relationship (FLR), but if you’re not… you should be! A FLR is a relationship where the woman (keyholder) is the dominant one. To establish this dominance, the keyholder should make the man address her with respect by calling them their mistress, master, or goddess as well as assign chores and tasks for the man. The keyholder should make the man serve them in every way they see fit, but especially sexually. The keyholders sexual needs and desires come first. The man’s desires are last and only if the keyholder allows them.
Signs Your Man is Ready for a Female Led Relationship
2. Tease and Denial
As said in the previous section, the keyholder should decide when and if the man’s sexual needs and desires are allowed. Well, a great way to let them know you’re serious is with tease and denial.
Tease and denial is as simple as it sounds. Tease him by making out, grabbing his locked cock, letting him pleasure you, and lead him to believe he will be unlocked and pleasured. That’s when you tell him, “Not today,” or “Maybe next week… if you’re good.” His dick will be straining hard against his cage and his balls will ache, but most importantly, he will know who is boss.
Best Ways to Tease and Deny in Chastity
3. Introduce Some Toys
Toys can go both ways, for the locked and for the keyholder. For the man in chastity, toys such as vibrators to use on the cage work great to tease them, butt plugs and gags are great toys to make them more obedient if they complain or beg, and strap ons and dick sheaths are amazing when you want to have sex but don’t want them to use their own dicks (men will both love and hate fucking you while feeling no sensitivity).
For the keyholder, some of the same toys apply. Vibrators and strap ons for them to pleasure you with, gags and paddles to punish them with when they’ve misbehaved, and even harnesses and straps to really punish them. Basically, anything that will bring them pleasure.
4. Servitude
Even if you already have your female led relationship established, you can always push it further. The man should know that he lives to serve and worship the keyholder. He should know that the keyholder is always right and accept and agree to anything and everything they say and command. They should give the keyholder foot massages after long days and cook them dinner when they come home. They should make the bed and fluff the pillows. They should do the laundry and worship every piece of clothing that has touched their keyholder’s body.
5. Sissy Maid
If the keyholder wants to make their man even more subservient then can turn them into their personal sissy maid. This entails making them into devoted sissies and dressing them up as maids to clean the house and serve. The keyholder can lay back and relax while their maid brings them drinks and cooks them food throughout the day. Most importantly, however, they can harshly judge their maid’s work and punish them as needed to help them learn.
6. Cuckolding
Still not enough femdom in your relationship? Consider opening your relationship to cuckolding. Cuckolding is when the keyholder has sex with other men while their locked man watches and serves them. This isn’t for everyone, but if you’re both interested then it can be a great way to spice up your relationship and for the keyholder to really establish their control.
How to Turn Your Husband into Your Cuckold
Did we miss anything? How do you spice up your chastity relationship and keep it fun and fresh? Let us know!
